Back at One
It's like a back-to-one day today.
I think we should appreciate and cherish what we have now instead of whinning and complaining. Stop comparing with others or thinking how miserable life is, coz' there's always someone out there who is ten million times worse than you. We might be always seeing the good side of how others are doing and not knowing the negative side of their situation. Sometimes, I just wanna whine and voice out, but I don't mean to complaint, I just want to say out how I am feeling. I realised that I like to keep some feelings to myself, I just can't express out or maybe I don't really find the need to say it out because I will just stone and think of the solutions myself.
Things don't always happen like how we expect them to be, so we shouldn't have any expectations. Of course, many things are easier said than done. But we just gotta try, but not trying too hard. Letting go things that aren't meant to be, and move on. We shouldn't cling on to the past and let it haunt us because it will affect any and everything. I know that I shouldn't always think so much but it is really hard. But I am trying, and also trying to not let my emotions control me.
I feel that it's important to know and understand ourselves. It sets me thinking of what I should do or should not do. Should just live like it is and should not think too much for example? How stupid it is to be sensitive over trivial matters and letting it take over your emotions, and then affecting everything. It is as stupid as hoping guys would read books to understand girls more when deep inside us know that most guys just can't be bothered. Like girls, always trying too hard to solve problems that to us it's very important but it means nothing to guys. Everyone has a different mindset and thinking. It is just like the differences between men and women. We keep pondering over why can't someone do this and that because we would do the same for them and not thinking that our thinkings are different, and we can't expect them to think the same way as we are.
There are many senses that's deep inside us but we just refuse to acknowledge them until one day we are finally enlightened by whatever it is. It really takes a lot to realise. Should take one step at a time, stop thinking of what would happen if I do this or that and just live like it is, maybe things might turn out just better than whatever that you are expecting. Without expectations for some things, might actually be better and you might be happier this way. Just like the more you expect, the more disappointed you will get.
"Sometimes, girls just need to be constantly assured.
Just sometimes, girls just need to voice out and need someone to listen, not needing any solutions."
The key is to be content. :)
I think we should appreciate and cherish what we have now instead of whinning and complaining. Stop comparing with others or thinking how miserable life is, coz' there's always someone out there who is ten million times worse than you. We might be always seeing the good side of how others are doing and not knowing the negative side of their situation. Sometimes, I just wanna whine and voice out, but I don't mean to complaint, I just want to say out how I am feeling. I realised that I like to keep some feelings to myself, I just can't express out or maybe I don't really find the need to say it out because I will just stone and think of the solutions myself.
Things don't always happen like how we expect them to be, so we shouldn't have any expectations. Of course, many things are easier said than done. But we just gotta try, but not trying too hard. Letting go things that aren't meant to be, and move on. We shouldn't cling on to the past and let it haunt us because it will affect any and everything. I know that I shouldn't always think so much but it is really hard. But I am trying, and also trying to not let my emotions control me.
I feel that it's important to know and understand ourselves. It sets me thinking of what I should do or should not do. Should just live like it is and should not think too much for example? How stupid it is to be sensitive over trivial matters and letting it take over your emotions, and then affecting everything. It is as stupid as hoping guys would read books to understand girls more when deep inside us know that most guys just can't be bothered. Like girls, always trying too hard to solve problems that to us it's very important but it means nothing to guys. Everyone has a different mindset and thinking. It is just like the differences between men and women. We keep pondering over why can't someone do this and that because we would do the same for them and not thinking that our thinkings are different, and we can't expect them to think the same way as we are.
There are many senses that's deep inside us but we just refuse to acknowledge them until one day we are finally enlightened by whatever it is. It really takes a lot to realise. Should take one step at a time, stop thinking of what would happen if I do this or that and just live like it is, maybe things might turn out just better than whatever that you are expecting. Without expectations for some things, might actually be better and you might be happier this way. Just like the more you expect, the more disappointed you will get.
"Sometimes, girls just need to be constantly assured.
Just sometimes, girls just need to voice out and need someone to listen, not needing any solutions."
The key is to be content. :)
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